The art of listening
American famous host Linklater one day to visit a child, asked him: "what do you want to be when you grow up?" the little friend replied: "well...... I'm going to when the plane's pilot! "Then Linklater Q:" if one day, your aircraft flying over the Pacific Ocean all engine flameout, how do you do? "The child thinks:" I will first tell the person sitting on the plane bound safety belts, and then I hung up my parachute jump. " When the audience laughed when the rickety Linklater continue to watch this child, want to see the guy that he is not a smart Aleck. Did not expect, then two lines of a child's eyes tears, this makes Linklater found that the child's heart of compassion is far from pen and ink can describe. So Linklater asked him, "Why are you doing this?" the child's answer revealed the true idea of the child: "I'm going to get the fuel and I'll be back."!!!"
Inspiration: This is the art of listening ". One is obedient don't listen to half. Two do not put their own meaning, projected to the other people say. To learn to listen, listen attentively, with an open mind.
Learn to rely on others
One day my mother took him to the grocery store to buy things, the boss saw the lovely child, opened a can of candy, to the little boy to take a candy. But the boy does not have any action. After a few invitations, the boss personally grabbed a handful of sweets and put them in his pocket. Back home, mother curiously asked the little boy, why not own to grab candy and want a boss to catch it? Answered the little boy is very clever: "because my hand is relatively small ah! And the boss hands more, so he took a certain a lot more than I get!"
Revelation: This is a clever boy, he knows his own limited, and more important, he also knows that others than their own strong. Everything depends not only on their own strength, learn to rely on others in a timely manner, is a kind of humility, but also a kind of wisdom.
Being Optimistic or Pessimistic
One of the different character of the twin brother is out and out of pessimism, his brother is like a natural optimist. In the Christmas Eve at the age of 8, they and the family to change their extreme character, as they prepared different kinds of gifts: gift to brother is a brand-new bike, to his brother's gift is a box full of horse manure. When it comes to the present, all the people are waiting to see their reaction.
Brother opened the first of his giant plate, unexpectedly cried: "you know I can't ride a bike! And outside under a such a big snow!" while parents nervously to coax him happy, my brother curiously opened his the box, filling the room full of the smell of horse manure. Unexpectedly, brother cheered a sound, then on the spirits to scoop up: "tell me quickly, you put the horse hid in where?"
Enlightenment: we are in the understanding of the problem, we must not blindly pessimistic disappointment, it should be a positive attitude towards people and things in life, otherwise they will fall into the abyss of pessimism and failure.