A man in the work for 20 years, and finally to go home, the boss asked him: do you want 20 years of wages or to 3 words of advice? The man said I give you the answer tomorrow morning on the road, please? The boss said that you can. The man awake... In the morning, he said to his boss: "I need 3 pieces of advice.". So the boss gave him 3 sentences. First, do not try to find an impossible shortcut, there is no cheap things, only the best way is to do it... No matter what. Two, do not know it is not a good thing to be too curious, it is possible that you will be killed. Three, don't make any decision on impulse, or the decision will likely be a lifetime of regret. The boss gave the man some money and three loaves of bread, and told: the biggest bread at home to eat. Men are on the road... He walked for several days... To eat the first half of the bread, not too long to meet a junction, he asked: I would like to ask where to go to * * * * Road near? A passer-by A: take the road, near. Stranger B: take the road, safe. He can't wait to meet with his wife, so take a path. Go soon heard passers-by near downtown brigands, so he thought the boss the first piece of advice: don't try to find a short cut. So he went back to the road. And walked for a few days, second pieces of bread to eat a part of the... He found a very cheap inn. In the middle of the night, he heard a woman cry, he couldn't sleep. So I decided to go out and see. Then he thought of the second advice: don't be too curious about the things that are not good. So he went to sleep again. The second day of departure, the store exclaimed: you're still alive?! He did not understand, then asked the reason. The store said he had a crazy daughter, when the incidence of cries brought out to kill, last night lodging guests only you a alive. Man: ah... And after a few days, he was not far from home when the second loaves of bread were finished. He was even more excited. It was not long before it was dark, and he came to his village. When he got home he was ready to knock on the door, but he heard a man's voice in the room. He was very angry, picked up a wood cutting knife ready to kill the man rushed into the room. But then he thought of the third advice: don't make any decision on impulse, maybe this decision will make you regret for a lifetime. So he calmed down and sat outside the house all night. The morning of the second day long he knocked on the door, his wife was very happy to see him come back. But he is very cold: who is that man? His wife laughed and said: "that's our son."... Not long after you leave me... At this time he found that the young man was very similar to his own. Father and son meet for the first time, cried together... A burst of concern after the man took out third bread to prepare and his wife, son together to share... After the incision was found 20 years of wages in the inside. So we do everything we need to think about it, otherwise we will regret it at last!
Must have 9 kinds of ability, 9 kinds of means, 9 kinds of state of mind
One: calm
(1) don't expose your emotions.
(2) don't talk about your difficulties and encounters.
(3) before asking other people's opinion, think first, but don't talk about it first.
(4) do not have the opportunity to talk about your dissatisfaction.
(5) the important decision to try to have someone else to discuss, it is best to be released every other day.
(6) do not have any panic speech, walking is also.
Two: careful
(1) the things that happen around them, often thinking about their cause and effect.
(2) the implementation of the problem is not in place, to explore their root causes.
(3) to be used to do things, to improve or optimize the recommendations.
(4) do what thing to develop the habit and everything in good order and well arranged in order.
(5) often to find a few people can not see the problems or drawbacks.
(6) at any time and place to place their own lack of compensation.
Three: courage
(1) do not use the words often lack of confidence
(2) do not always go back, easily overthrow the matter has been decided.
(3) do not have the idea when the people are arguing.
(4) when the whole atmosphere is low, you should be optimistic and sunny.
(5) do anything with your heart, because someone is looking at you.
(6) when things do not breath, to find a breakthrough, to end but also smooth and clean.
Four: generous
(1) don't try to be a man who has the potential to be a partner.
(2) on other people's mistakes, small errors do not care about.
(3) in the money to be generous, learn three Shi (Cai Shi, the law Shi, fearless Shi)
(4) do not have the power of arrogance and prejudice of knowledge.
(5) any success or achievement should be shared with others.
(6) when someone has to sacrifice or sacrifice, he is walking in front of him.
Five: integrity
(1) do not do things not to say, said the effort to do.
(2) the slogan of the virtual do not hang on the mouth.
(3) according to the customer's "bad faith" problem, come up with the method of improvement.
(4) stop all "immoral" means.
(5) with a small smart, intolerable!
(6) calculate the cost of the good faith of the product or service, that is, the cost of the brand.
Six: play
(1) to review any fault of the time, start from their own or their own people to reflect on.
(2) matters after the first review of the fault, and then set out the credit.
(3) admit from the superior to biaogong from lower startup
(4) to proceed with a plan, first to define the responsibilities clearly, and to allocate properly.
(5) the "timid" person or organization to talk say.
(6) the company shall be responsible for the loss caused by the courage to take responsibility.